HOW TO MAKE YOUR BOYFRIEND HATE YOU 101
I woke up feeling extra mischievous today.
Obviously something had to be done.
#SorryNotSorry
#Shouldhavewokenupthefirsttime
#MyBad
( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gk8ZaiqQZAA )
#MyBad
( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gk8ZaiqQZAA )
Eve has been working hard to learn the skill of blowing a dandelion versus eating the dandelion.
Obviously some more practice is needed.
Why are we in a graveyard you may ask? I have always loved to frequent graveyards to find peace and understanding in this stressful world and believe it's extremely important for Eve to visit them as well. It's a great opportunity to talk about the natural side of life and death, the importance of living life to the fullest and to remember those that have been lost. It has a quiet, soothing peace that is hard to come by in a busy city.
It's also a great reality check on what is worth stressing about in this life. You can enter a graveyard full of stress and anxiety and come out with a swift kick to the rear that will help you remember what life's priorities really should be.
When your fiance works in the restaurant
industry you can't exactly pack him a lunch, but you can make him a
shift enhancing care package!
I LOVE uplifting videos. Seriously, I can and have spent hours on Wimp.com watching every video possible that all evoke a wide range of emotions. The tiger, lion and bear trio that have become best friends or the cat who saved a little boy from a dog attack, there are so many viral videos that come and go and I’ve probably watched them all.
However, I realized something today. I need to end this increasing addiction.
Even though all these amazing, viral videos uplift us and show us there is hope for our human race, I believe we are increasingly becoming numb to the very idea.
Before Youtube and the internet, a person would witness just a handful of these amazing events firsthand. They would have a personal account of seeing someone’s life saved, an adorable baby having a giggle fit or a magician performing the impossible. The most significant events such as a life saved or a hard lesson learned would stick with that person for the rest of their life. They would tell their own account to family and friends and would even pass the story onto their children. Although the social aspect of storytelling is extremely important and a rarity these days, more importantly would be the memory that was made. The life lasting impact of witnessing such unique events would help mold and shape that person’s life and those around them. They would return to those memories in moments of need and retrieve invaluable emotions and ideas unique to only them.
Unfortunately now the ability to witness an event of any importance is simply a click away. These videos are a dime a dozen and come and go over night. While we may cry, laugh or become passionate about a video we watched today I can guarantee you a month or even a week from today you won’t even remember it. I am sure there is the rare exception where a video may change your life and propel you to become a better person, however, because you lack the tangible experience it too will eventually fade.
At the end of the day, I am afraid the ever growing mass of viral videos, that ply at our emotions, are actually creating an even bigger problem. It is adjusting the way we react to what should be powerful, personal and rare moments by causing us to view it as every day occurrences. These emotional moments become just another click of the day and a quick social share that undermines the true, in the moment experience.
I am not trying to convince you that positive videos that spread awareness or evoke emotions are terrible things, but quite the opposite. It is because I have so much respect for these amazing stories told of cancer beaten and trials overcome that I want us to truly value them. If we continue to just click away we will slowly numb ourselves to the priceless lessons and stories being told. We might even forget how to cherish these rare moments when they happen in our own lives. We will find ourselves whipping out our cameras or phones to film in hopes of a viral video or at the very least a video to share among friends, rather than personally experiencing it and feeling those raw emotions begging to be valued.
Be careful of becoming addicted to those five seconds of raw emotion you will experience via these viral videos. Yes, it is nice to feel and witness these beautiful stories but be wary of the cost.
At the end of the day, if I am to be honest with myself (and you) I know I won’t stop watching those viral, uplifting videos. I love them. They make me feel hope for our race and it’s future, it reminds me that everyone has a story to be told and helps me feel connected to the world around.
That being said, starting today I will drastically minimize the amount I watch so I can truly value the ones I do view and cherish the stories being told. Those priceless moments deserve the utmost respect and shouldn’t be treated as a dime a dozen as I have been guilty of doing.
*** The videos I am referring to are NOT the typical prank wars, funny animals or laughing baby videos, but rather the very personal and uplifting videos that portray life changing events and lessons learned. ***
So Eve has gotten a trike for the summer and what started out as a love hate relationship has bloomed into something beautiful. That being said, Eve has this knack of finding every possible way of how not to use something. Seriously. Instead of using something for it's intended purpose she will discover every other way and go from there. In the trike's case it became a push toy of some sort as you can see below. This was adorable for all of 5 minutes until I realized we had only gone 2 feet...
Eve is absolutely obsessed with The Wiggles and has begun to memorize every song they have, this is one of her favorites called "Do the Owl." Although she may not know every word as of yet she definitely knows the moves!
